RAISING MYSELF: A Memoir of Neglect, Shames and Growing Up Too Soon by Beverly Engel & GIVEAWAY



We kick off SheWritesPress’, THE MAGIC OF MEMOIR month with Beverly Engel’s, RAISING MYSELF: A Memoir of Neglect, Shame and Growing up Too Soon.

No one could have imagined how as a child Beverly Engel could have managed to become who she is today―an internationally known expert on abuse recovery and a on best-selling author. This is the raw, candid story of how she made her way in the world in spite of her mother’s neglect, unreasonable expectations and constant criticism; in spite of being sexually abused, first at four years old and then at nine; and in spite of being raped at twelve.

RAISING MYSELF takes readers on a remarkable journey, showing us how Engel, who was basically on her own from the age of four, learned how to cope with a neglectful, narcissistic mother while being surrounded by a cast of characters that included eccentrics and misfits, a religious fanatic, child molesters, rapists, and hoodlums. It is a soul-searching memoir about how she came dangerously close to the edge of becoming a child molester, a criminal, and a suicide, and how she battled her inner demons and struggled to keep her heart open and to “reinvent” herself so she could follow her dream of making something of herself. Powerfully inspiring and unflinchingly honest, RAISING MYSELF is a story of remarkable resilience and insight.

Every time I read a memoir such as Beverly Engel’s, RAISING MYSELF, I have to stop and catch my breath when I finish. I applaud her courage to dig deep into her past and decision to share her life with we, readers. The Magic of Memoir is that we become stronger after sharing the author’s journey and experience.



Beverly Engel is an internationally recognized psychotherapist and an acclaimed advocate for victims of sexual, physical, and emotional abuse. She is the author of 21 self-help books, including 4 best-selling books on emotional abuse: The Emotionally Abusive Relationship, The Emotionally Abused Woman, and Encouragements for the Emotionally Abused Woman, and Healing Your Emotional Self. Her latest book entitled, It Wasn’t Your Fault: Freeing Yourself from the Shame of Childhood Abuse with the Power of Self-Compassion came out in Jan. of 2015. Engel is a licensed marriage and family therapist, and has been practicing psychotherapy for 35 years.

Beverly’s books have often been honored for various awards, including being a finalist in the Books for a Better Life award. Many of her books have been chosen for various book clubs, including One Spirit Book Club, Psychology Today Book Club and Behavioral Sciences Book Club. Her books have been translated into many languages, including Japanese, Spanish, Chinese, Korean, Greek, Turkish and Lithuanian.

In addition to her professional work, Beverly frequently lends her expertise to national television talk shows. She has appeared on Oprah, CNN, and Starting Over, and many other TV programs. She has a blog on the Psychology Today website as well as regularly contributing to the Psychology Today magazine, and has been featured in a number of newspapers and magazines, including: Oprah Magazine, Cosmopolitan, Ladies Home Journal, Redbook, Marie Claire, The Chicago Tribune, The Washington Post, The Los Angeles Times, The Cleveland Plain Dealer, and The Denver Post.

She regularly conducts training workshops throughout the United States and the United Kingdom, for both professional and lay audiences. Recently she has been conducting trainings on emotional abuse for the United States Army, in both Texas and Georgia as part of their domestic violence training for staff.



Thanks to SheWritesPress, we have one copy of RAISING MYSELF. Just tell us what’s the latest “self-help” book you’ve read recently.

We’ll announce winner soon. Good luck.


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21 thoughts on “RAISING MYSELF: A Memoir of Neglect, Shames and Growing Up Too Soon by Beverly Engel & GIVEAWAY

  1. I have to say I have not read any self help books. This book sounds very intriguing. I am going to look up some of this authors self hel pop books to read. Thank you for the chance.

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  2. The Bible is the best self help book out there!
    I appreciate those that share their experiences as they can and do help others with their own experiences. Thank you for sharing. I look forward to reading your book.


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